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Laughter is the best medicine 🙂

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Photography: I am in love with pictures


Heloooo 🙂

I am a huge lover of photography and breathe taking ones to be precise. So, when I stumbleupon what I call a masterpiece, all I could say was ooooo my God this is BEAUTIFUL 🙂

I don’t know so much about the photographer but you can check them out if you wish on instantshift.com Trust me this is just soo lovely. I am majorly dazed by the creativity behind each shot. I will like to know your favourite one 🙂

I will like to know your favourite 🙂

The images in this post are courtesy of  instantshift.com


I just saw this just now and I sooo love it 🙂 So I thought to share it with you 🙂 I hope you love it.

Parisien Nights, Parisien Lights

For those of us floating in the northern hemisphere, it’s annual break-out-the-bikini time but not all of us are cheering and I don’t blame the ones who moaned. I mean, prancing around in a bathing suit is pretty scary, especially with all those people “watching”, who wouldn’t feel a least a bit self conscious?

But come on, let’s get rid of that. Life’s too short and opportunities only come once right. I used to be so horrified of the bikini, I just always felt like there were people staring, judging. It made me feel uncomfortable, hell, I still feel a bit uncomfortable but I’ve learnt now to cope with it.

I hope you like this post because honestly, its just the 7 things that’s helped me over the years and don’t worry, I’m still getting there but they definitely help. Try to be uncynical 🙂 Please?

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  1. The Cliche Is True

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How to turn your DREAMS into REALITIES.


In life there are choices to make. Tough ones. But your ability to stick and fight and win is what’s gonna count at the end of the day. Trust me. I have learnt to write my thoughts down. I have learnt to write my dreams down and planwith it  and fix a timeline on it to make is a target and to make it

S-specific

M-measurable

A-attainable

R-realistic

T-time bound

Its good to have a dream and wish for the world to give you a chance to show them what you have to offer, truth is nobody is gonna give you that time. You have to show them what you have to offer,not ask them to give you the time. Truth is everbody is bothered about themselves not you.  People want to help when they see that you have something real and physical they can invest in. Lets take for example, that you have a plan to own a business empire in  future. The usual way people will go about his is to meet someone who has money and say I have a dream to build a business empire in  future and I want you to give me money to build this empire. In this situation, it does not matter how old you are. What matters is dat you are sleeping and you need to wake up from this dream early enough before its too late. The possible answer the person will give you is sorry I can’t do that or WAKE UP (actually that’s what I will say)!  The best approach in life is to dream,plan and go for it.

In this situation what I usually do is this:

  • When I have a dream, I write it down (I do this because I might forget how it was the first time I saw it either in my dream or day dreaming or day thinking.)
  • Then I write down like a child how I intend to turn this dream into a reality.(mind you this is very important because it helps you let out your creativity. When you write like a child, you don’t see impossibilities. All you see is possibilities and you just want to start achieving it)
  • Then I put a timeline to this dream of mine and it becomes my target.(this is very important because at this time it seizes to be a dream or just a wish . Its now a target. My target !

Then I start! Here no more plans. I bring out the note I wrote like a child and start  acting.

Let me give you a more physical example. I want to own a fashion empire. Using my philosophy:  I would write it down like a child somewhat like this

To own my fashion house, I have to have money and experience and contacts in the fashion industry. So I ll start by working in a fashion house as an apprentice and attend fashion shows to make contacts in the fashion industry. I will have to start making my own designs and show my friends and create a blog were I would showcase my designs for the world to see.

Truth is, sooner or later,the dream you once had would now have colours and more of something you can touch and connent the dots backwards and see you progress..

Then  I will put a timeline to this dream. Lets say 5 years from now.

Then I ACT!  I Start by applying for the job of an pprentice in a fashion.

Note:Always go back to your “IMAGINATION BOOK”. You will be amazed how you are coincediately walking in line with plans. But if you are not, you have to stop and retrace your steps.

This has worked for me over time and its still working for me. This philosophy was handed to me many years ago by my best friend.  I just thought to share it with you. I hope you find it highly useful as I found it useful.

Live your life ; Love your life 🙂

Comfort Zone:A lesson from Marianne Williamson


I saw this poem 5 Years ago and fell in LOVE with it.. Its a piece from Marianne Williamson. I hope you like it as much as I do ….

Enjoy… 🙂
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

It is not our light,not our darkness that most frightens us.

We ask ourselves,who am I to be brilliant,gorgeous,talented and fabulous?

Actually who are you not 2 be?You are a child of God.

Your playing small doesn’t serve the world. We were born to manifest the glory of God that’s within us.

Its not just in some of us; It is in everyone. And as we let our own light shine,we unconsciously give out fear,our presence automatically liberate others.

Marianne Williamson

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ADVENTURE: My Lokoja experience….


I woke up this morning feeling adventurous and then I remembered something I did…..

One day a long time ago. I woke up and said I wanted to travel to Lokoja. Mind you I have never been there before. I planned my trip and travelled the next day:-)  I decided 2 go by bus so I could  see everything with my eyes. Mind you this trip was over seven hours. Imagine seven hours sitting with your***. Trust me when I stood up, I could barely walk. lol. Counting the hours started to feel like I have been in the bus for days.I saw mountains and trees and people. Seriously, what was I supposed to see? lol .. Just thought I show you some of the pictures I was able to take before I slept off …LOL

Am sorry about the low quality of the pictures

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I think this is somewhere around Akure,Nigeria.

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When we got here, I was like yippee! Cos I finally got to exercise my aching body lol

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I really don’t know were this is…*smiling*

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Who takes pictures from the back of the bus?? ME..lol

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The villagers were chilling and having a good time…

Who knows…. the next adventure might just be to Paris *wink*

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Truth be told


To be a nation builder is not an easy task. One has to be courageous and focus but also must have the right kind of people around who either share the same idea of vision or future with you. Truthfully, making up one’s mind to be the change in an environment like Nigeria is not easy. This is because in this nation, we have people who are corrupt,people who once had a dream of a better Nigeria but lost it, people who have debased themselves to accepting what they have been offered, people who are scared of what might happen if they act right, people who have refused to believe in the future, people who lost hope,people who have let their present financial situation rob them of the future they could have had,people who have allowed their background put their back on the ground, People who have let their physical disability rob them of their right,people who have let the present ills of the society subdue and depress them from taking actions to cause a change in the nation.

Truth be told, Nigeria can only be built by Nigerians.

 Have you decided to be the change and nation builder? Have you personally developed yourself by investing in your personality?

Just having “mega ideas” will not change the nation but “action” brings about the change.

#thoughtsofmerceeo